I asked Kelly a couple of weeks ago if I should get her something for Mother’s Day. I was relieved when she said no, because, to be honest, there really isn’t any gift that I could give her that could express how great a mother she is. The past couple of weeks I have been reflecting on how wonderful she is, and how blessed Taylor and I are to have her. She truly is a blessing from God.
I have only been a parent for 14 months, but I am amazed how much work a little one can be! I often get asked by people how I am handling this increased workload, and I don’t exactly know how to respond. On one hand, I am in awe of Kel’s dedication, strength, patience, and love for Taylor. To be honest, words really can’t describe how much she loves her, and she is tireless in her efforts in taking care of her. But on the other hand, I sometimes feel like I am not doing enough to help, because no matter how hard I try, Kel is one step ahead of me. I don’t know how I would ever be able to do it without her, and I am so thankful for all that she does.
She is an incredible mother and an amazing wife. We have been married for four and half years, and every day is better than the day before. I cannot count all of the little things she does for me, from making my lunch for me (which I hate doing!) to taking care of the house and laundry. I deeply appreciate these little things, and I am a little ashamed that I am not more diligent in thanking her for it. Recently, she took part in a 40 Day Love Challenge with some women from our church, which was a challenge for them to intentionally show love to their husbands through various loving gestures, without asking or expecting anything in return. When she was finished and told me what she had done, she said that she was convinced that I would figure out that something was going on. But to be honest, since she has always been so loving and selfless in our marriage, I didn’t even notice! She is always there for me, in happy times and in sad times. It is her strength during those sad times is what helps get me through. She reminds me that God has a plan for our family, and that all we need to do is put our faith in him!
So Taylor and I wanted to take some time today to wish Kelly a Happy Mother’s Day and to thank her for all that she has done for us! We love you Mommy!
And I don’t want to forget my own mother Mary. I would have to start another blog to document all of things she has done for me over the years! Thank you for all you have done for me Mom, I love you too!
Love,
RY

